Even if my experience was cut short by 4 months thanks to COVID, I still carry the takeaways from my time in Germany today, seven years later. During my year, I lived with the most wonderful host mother who invited me into every aspect of her life! Together, we spent time with her children and friends, played volleyball and German scrabble together, joined a local choir, and took many trips to Berlin for sports games, concerts, and historical excursions! One especially touching moment was when she planned a Christmas trip for us to go visit the city where my grandfather was born and getting to see the exact apartment where he spent his early childhood. We also got to spend time with extended family in Dresden, and even to this day I send holiday messages to her family. In school, I was so warmly welcomed by classmates and teachers. I didn't know any German when I arrived, so I was so thankful for the leniency and patience they showed me- traits I hadn't expected given my stereotypes of Germans. So, this was a great way to really experience the culture and people and change my mind about them.
However, one of the best parts has been the relationships I've made through AFS, even if not in the traditional way. After my year abroad, my hostmother hosted another student, and I got to meet her when I went back for a visit. That was five years ago, but we still talk every day, and last summer I took a trip to Norway to see her again:) Additionally, my family hosted a student from Germany, and I got to go visit her in Germany, where I met her local friends, one of who I was just texting the other day to try to make plans to see in Switzerland! Another fun relationship was a girl I met during my exchange year who was from Russia. At the time, I didn't have any experience with Russian, but now I've been studying it for four years, so I reached out to her to re-connect and practice, and it was so interesting to hear about her life in Russia and get to know her through her native language.
Overall, my seven months in Germany were really a catapult into what would become a lifelong passion of mine- exploring cultures and meeting new people. I grew immensely and really came away valuing my new relationships and being unafraid to initiate conversations and create new bonds with people who seem very different from me on the surface. Once we got to know each other, we found we are all just people who want to learn and build connections, and I'm so grateful I got this opportunity and that I have these new perspectives and people in my life. Thank you!