A volunteer holiday in Thailand? ‘Great idea!’ said my daughter; ‘Why on earth do you want to do that? I shan’t have a moment’s peace until you are safely back home!’ said my brother. At over 70 years old I wanted to know if I could still cope with the demands and hardships, and contribute something worthwhile. And if the young people would put up with me.
The Mirror Foundation is a worthy Thai NGO and their beautiful site among the Hill Tribes is the next best thing to Paradise. It’s in a clearing in the jungle in the Golden Triangle, with streams and ponds and greenery. You walk along paths and over a little bridge to breakfast, past a variety of traditional housing nestling in the hollows, by the water, or on the sunny open area.
We were well-housed and well-fed. The simple food prepared by ladies from the tribe, is very healthy and based on local produce - rice, vegetables and a little meat or eggs, usually in spicy sauces. Tip - never pile the sauce on top of the rice on your plate, put it to one side so that you can take a spoonful of it at a time with the rice… just in case it’s a little too spicy!
The dormitories are a little snug, but lockers and mosquito nets are provided. Up in the hills here there can be a 20 degree change of temperature from day to night, so a sleeping bag is a good addition to your luggage, but you can always hire one on site. I have to admit that I never got used to the cold showers! Tip - take one in the afternoon when the water may have fractionally warmed up.
The range of nationalities was interestingly diverse - there seemed to be at least 75% of the volunteers from all over Asia, with the rest from the English-speaking world.
The Outdoor team went off and did amazingly useful things during the day, such as cutting down trees, re-roofing homes or digging up old rice paddies. The Indoor group were either doing child care, which meant playing in English with the nursery age children, or teaching English. After a day’s orientation the teaching group used the Wifi room computers and facilities to prepare for teaching. Every day we would be sent out in cars (covered pick-up trucks) looking like a gang of migrant workers (which is actually what we were!) to variety of locations, mostly primary schools around Chiang Rai, also to a group of monks, or even to an English Festival at the local university.
The teaching was challenging - it was the first time in my life that I had taught children whose language was totally incomprehensible to me, and to whom I could not explain even simple things. We learnt a list of Thai expressions and instructions, e.g. ‘Kián!’ (‘Write!’), but were hampered in explaining more complicated activities. Fortunately there were usually 2 or 3 volunteers in each room, and we had helpers who circulated among the classrooms, in the form of our invaluable driver/mentor, and Thai interns on a 3-month placement from their university. We usually felt by the end of a lesson that some language learning had taken place and the children had made progress. Given the inexperience of the majority of volunteers this was a triumph.
We would drive back home after teaching, to fall into the wonderful snack bar on the site, (or take that shower), have a debriefing session and then chat over the evening meal, before preparing for the next day. Some nights there was time to go into the town of Chiang Rai, about half an hour away, and have a drink or visit the Night Market and spend too much money. We were free to explore at the weekends, and all took advantage of the travel possibilities, or went on homestay to a tribal home.
I was impressed by IVHQ, and much admired the aims and efficiency of the the set-up and the personnel here, which made it all possible. We felt safe and supported at all times, and I congratulate the staff for looking after us extremely well (yes Nikki, this means you).
It gave me personally great pleasure to to see the children respond to our teaching, and to watch inexperienced young volunteers flourish and develop their skills. The unexpected bonus for me was the way being old in Thailand is not a disadvantage: people always went out of their way to help me, and fellow volunteers welcomed my experience and were willing to learn from it.
It turns out that you can do something worthwhile and enjoy it, and have a life-changing experience at any age.