“You will never be completely at home again, because part of your heart always will be elsewhere. That is the price you pay for the richness of loving and knowing people in more than one place.” –Miriam Adeney
After returning home and reflecting on my time abroad in Australia, I have realized how much I have learned about myself. I know this may sound cliché, but I have been exposed to so many different cultures and ways of life. By immersing myself into a foreign culture and meeting people from all over the world, I have learned more than I ever could inside a classroom. I left America as a dependent student and returned home 4 months later as an independent woman with a different perspective from when I had left. Not to say that my academics in the classroom were of no value, because I did learn a great deal of knowledge about Australian history and culture. However, I place far more value on the relationships I formed with my professors and classmates rather than the content taught in each lecture. Both locals and other exchange students taught me so much about their own unique culture. I had friends from over 10 different countries, all of which contributed something different to my experience. The friendships I made throughout my stay is what made saying goodbye so difficult. I never imagined people with such different backgrounds could come together and create such a strong bond. No matter how different we may seem at a glance, we all have more in common than we realize. As Miriam Adeney claims, my heart will forever be in more than one place after meeting such incredible people.
Something that I noticed during my time abroad and would like to stress is the cultural difference from one nationality to another. We all have very different approaches to education, social relationships, religion and many more everyday things. However, I learned that no one culture is right or wrong, but instead, each culture is simply unique from the rest. By accepting and respecting these differences, we can eliminate the judgments made toward cultures that are different from our own and get rid of the egocentric attitude we have about our own culture.
Academically, this trip has helped me improve my cultural awareness, which is beneficial to improving my career goals of becoming a physical therapist because down the road, I will encounter patients from many different ethnic backgrounds. I have become far more appreciative and understanding towards other cultures’ approach to life.
My goal was to become more independent, and it is safe to say I have fulfilled that goal. The minute I was dropped off by IES onto the UNSW campus, I was on my own. I had no choice but to find my way around, meet new people, and embrace the opportunity I had in front of me, an opportunity most people will never have. I found that the best way to do this was to be myself, and keep an open mind to everything and everyone. It ranged from simple things like figuring out public transportation, to more difficult things like planning a trip to Thailand, all of which challenged my dependence. From a professional standpoint, this independence has given me the confidence I need to become successful in my field of study.
The scholarship I received was a blessing to me. I can list a hundred different ways in which it supported my experience, but instead, I want to focus on what I believe to be the most important; my 2 week trip to Thailand. Although I studied in Australia, and learned a great deal about their culture, I found it rather similar to America, and considered it my home away from home. I wanted something extremely different. I wanted to step outside my comfort zone and explore a place that I never imagined. I wanted to feel uncomfortable, and see the world from a whole new perspective, which is why I chose Thailand. I learned more about Buddhism and their religion from this trip than I ever would have in a semester long lecture-style religion class. Overall, this trip gave me a greater appreciation for all of the things I have, because after travelling to a developing country, it made me realize how many things we all take for granted, like clean water and a warm bed.
I was fortunate enough to explore beyond my study abroad home. This trip was used to make my life richer through travel. Before going, I always heard how amazing studying abroad was. But to actually have the opportunity is something I will always be grateful for. I will forever carry that experience and all of the knowledge I gained with me wherever my future plans may lead. When people ask about my adventure, I always find it so hard to come up with something to say that sums up 4 entire months. And that’s just it; there really is nothing I can say that describes my experience in its entirety without leaving something out. It is something only I will fully appreciate. I wish everyone had the opportunity to go abroad because it taught me so much about myself, and those around me. It taught me things that cannot be taught through lecture, but rather can only be learned through travel.